Cajun Style wrote:liljoe1997 wrote:what do you mean of double post?
Instead of making a second post with more info, you can edit the first post to contain that info.
liljoe1997 wrote:
if I were just all calm and stuff as if it didn't happen, would you expect them to believe me enough?
I don't think so, if you're willing to tell the truth and to get people to believe you, you must express yourself at your best.
That's what my dad told me when I was younger.
I was just frustrated on that day when I made that video and of course this topic.
Being frustrated and desperate isn't exactly expressing yourself at your best. (Well, I hope for you
) I can understand, but the fact is: you lost your cool. I don't want to disrespect your old-man, but even the truth needs some sugar-coating.
1) Try to not antagonize the other as much as possible. As soon as you imply the other party is anything bad, the point whether you are kicked will become the same as whether they are good. "What are you (dumb-ass) talking about?" or "Why would (such a fine young lad as) you say such a thing?!" can be a world of difference for petty souls.
2) Don't repeat yourself. They heard you and didn't understand. If they understood, the quarrel would be over. Making the same point repeatedly only makes you annoying. If there was a specific part they apparently missed in your reasoning, you could try to explicate that. Very hard if you're frustrated. Keeping your yap shut is better. Feel free to express any emotions, though, as long as it is not (or only tangentially) related to your dispute. Emotions show you're human... and make you look like a crybaby ;P
3) Another reason why you should keep your mouth as shut as possible: there are bullies known as "trolls" and they love to see the quarrel get as big as possible. They'd also like to have any injustice at the end, because it is freaking funny. As soon as you stop giving them stuff to react to, they will be the ones ranting and making an ass out of themselves, or better yet, shutting up. If you have to react to their accusations (because they will conjure rumors), be as short and apt as possible; and in this case definitely don't show any emotion. The more arguments you make, the more stuff they have to react to.
In short: yeah, I believe you'd have had a better chance, if you didn't cry out as much. Also remember that the instigators were probably jack-asses, but the rest of the players probably weren't. The average player just wants to have fun, and probably cares more about having the quarrel end than to have justice.
I pulled this out of the-place-where-the sun-don't-shine. I don't consider this the truth at all. Feel free to correct me where I'm wrong. I can't hide the fact that I have a bad impression of you. If you're honest, though, I sincerely hope you won't have to deal with this again, and if it happens, you keep your cool better.
I May sound a bit pissed but I was actually a bit exaggerated lol
I actually sound different than that, when I'm pissed for real, I definitely sound totally different xD!
its alright if you think what you think what I'm like, I respect it, I was just annoyed about this happening to me, that's why I get upset... I would rather play than to post several ban appeals.
Emotions actually don't make a person look like a cry baby, well depending how they react lol. I didn't have any tears in my eyes during the commentary, even during gameplay, My attitude was like a WTF kind of attitude in my thought.
according to some I may sound like a raging kid but when I rage its a lot different than what you saw lol.
everyone rages, depending on some things lol.
I actually have anger problems during my late childhood times, I remember getting into a few school fights back in elementary just because they pissed me off, but now, I pretty much control (getting close) my cool. I may lose it sometimes when I'm not in the mood, especially that video footage I made with commentary. I was depressed and fearing of ending up on the blacklist or just being Identified as a hacker. I made this (I know I said it a few times already lol) just so that I have some people on my side so if I end up being Identified as a hacker, I have supporters who can back off those accusers if that's the case

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I have many ways to explain why I made this kind of post, I just choose what I think is best to explain this whole thing.
Thanks for those pointers
I will try to improve when I attempt to make another appeal like that.
I was just extremely annoyed because of getting banned from 4 servers that I thought were good...
I know you might know this already but I will remind you anyway, we are people and each of us may have similarities and differences, heck there are some others older than me that might be much bigger hot heads compared with me lol.
If my voice sounds a bit High, its actually like that lol, I may be 15 but I have my 13 year old voice xD! I think when I turn 16 or 17 I will probably have my dad's voice.
I actually inherited a hot tempered attitude from my mom but the physical abilities and some intelligence from my dad.
ever since I was 13 I wish I could control my temper, I was actually planning to see a Psychiatrist back at the age of 13, but instead my dad introduced me to a website where it teaches me what anger could do to my life.
I learned a lot and I control my temper most of the time now, but if a lot of (excuse my language) bullshit happened all at once, I get pissed pretty bad. I'm like my dad, we both have no time for nonsense. he may get pissed too but he is one calm man, I just wish I inherited his coolness instead of my mom's hot headedness
life isn't always a beach, but whatever God gave us, we must live with it
Which is actually a challenge for all of us so yeah.
and again Thanks for those pointers about myself
I finally know more about the wrong things I have about myself aside from other personal things.